That being said, now that we are home, there is so much in Canada that we missed, took for granted and are grateful to return to. Such as:
Good roads. Even with construction, our roads are navigable
here in North America. In the Philippines, the roads are only decent where some politician
took an interest in finishing the project. In Manila and most of its
surrounding area, the roads are fine. In small communities, well outside the
vision of authority in many cases, roads are constructed in fits and starts. You could find one kilometer of good cement road, followed
by 2 or 3 of rocks and potholes, and then another section of cement. We have
seen some sections almost joined, but they are not at the same height, so some gravel
gets left to ease you up the bump. It seems that each section was built by its
own construction group: engineer, labourers, and the politician with the money
who always pays himself first. If there is not any left to finish the job, it
doesn’t get done. Which leads me to….
Decent politicians. Corruption is very
common there. There are many who are trying to make a change, but at this point there’s
a lot of work to be done. Meanwhile, the politicians get richer, and the poor
go without services. One would think being a politician would be a plum job in
those circumstances, except that their life expectancy, even with bodyguards,
can be short.
Policing. Rules are good, but unless they are enforced, they
are useless. It is common to see signs here being totally ignored – vehicles
left in front of a no parking sign, garbage left all around a no littering
sign. To say nothing of the sounds of acceleration at a “Slow Down – School
Zone” sign. Pedestrian crossings in cities are clearly marked on the streets,
but the vehicles do not stop, or even slow down, for people crossing. Foot traffic
is left to take its chances with vehicular traffic.
Safety rules. Maybe we do baby our population in Canada, instead
of letting them learn by experience, but it’s nice that someone cares for the
dummies, too. Hubby winces every time he sees a small child, helmetless, no windshield
or eye protection, sitting in the front on a motorcycle zipping through the
traffic.
Sidewalks. Ones that cars don’t drive or park on, I mean.
They have sidewalks in some parts of some towns, although never consistently
along one side, and if they don’t have a significant curb, cars and specially motorcycles will use them
to go around other cars that are in their way. Unless of course, a tricycle or
motorcycle has been parked on it. Walking is extremely hazardous here.
Pedestrians are often forced onto the road where they take their life into
their hands.
Health Care. ‘nuff said. And dental care – even if it is
expensive, I’m glad my parents made me go to the dentist, and that it is a
habit I keep today.
Washing Machines. I have yet to find a Laundromat in the
Philippines. Washer women will advertise to do laundry, usually paid by the
kilogram of dry weight. Unfortunately, they often don’t have washing machines
either. They hand wash in a large basin, often using a piece of 2X4 board to
scrub against. Not so good with delicates. Poor hubby had a raw silk shirt that
came back shredded.
Personal Space. Queues are a fact of life, no matter where
you go. There will always be a need to
line up for something. But in this region where the right of way goes to the
one who is one millimeter closer, personal space is disregarded. If you do not
crowd the heels of the person in front, someone in back will assume you are not
in the line and will step in front of you, even if you're standing right beside the sign saying: "Line starts here".
All in all, while there are significant differences in expectations, generally dreams and values are the same between the two countries. Talking about time management may get you a puzzled look in the Philippines, but mention family, and everyone is on the same page. While the asian country is less sanitized, and its population less protected, its peoples are hard working and generous to a fault.
A lovely place to visit. Or to stay for the winter.
W